A few good men.

I like to take pride in all of the positive female role models I've been blessed with in my life. The number of "girl crushes" I've gathered over the years continues to grow as I venture into the next few years of my twenty somethings. (mid-twenties? late twenties?) Family members, professors, friends, professionals... they are all amazingly independent, hardworking women whom I can only strive and hope that I will someday be.

However, today I'm going to have to set my feminism aside to appreciate the good men in my life. The last six months have been nothing less of a roller coaster events. I have been absent from many things and distracted from others... trying to focus on what my heart has prioritized as being most important.

Most days it's easy to be strong. Most days it's easy to make decisions. Most days it's easy to get up and go to work. Most days it's easy to be supportive. Most days... but then there are some days that it just doesn't work out that way. Some days there is no dusting yourself off after a few tears in the corner of the hallway. 

That's when the good men step in. They stand by ready to catch you at just the right moment. Sometimes you're not even sure if they are really paying attention but just when you're about to hit the floor they show up just like the story books say, knights in shining armor...

It may have only been a ride home when you said you weren't too tired to drive but as soon as you sat in the passenger seat you realized a chauffeur for the day was the better choice. Maybe it was only a surprise cup of coffee at work after sitting in a hospital waiting room for hours. It might've been a text message reminding you to eat a little something. And most of the time it's been just a hug.

Whatever the small gesture has been, it's been exactly what I needed. And it's all come from the handsome knights that any girl would be so lucky to know. They've set quite the high standard for the rest of the boys in the world that I'm destined to meet; humble, honest, kind, caring, loving, supportive...

They've got a lot to prove when I've got so much to compare them too.

Thank you to all the good men. I'm not sure what I'd do right now without you. 


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